Achieving Goals

One of the things we are told in school while we were still pretty young, was that “if you fail to plan, then you plan to fail.” Now, I’ve never really been much of a planner. I’ve always been the spontaneous type, getting what I need for the moment, but as I have realized that time is continuing to move along and my years are steadily climbing in numbers, I have become pretty particular with my schedule as well as goals that I want to achieve and when I want to achieve them and I have moved forward in my life, but is it because of planning, or just because I wanted something bad enough to just do it? I’m not going to go too deep into what those goals are because I wanted this blog to pose this question:

Does not planning allow us to procrastinate on achieving our dreams and maybe not even get what we want, or is wanting something enough? And is it possible to achieve things without planning; and if planning is necessary, how meticulous should one be in their planning?

Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

Here are some important and inspirational facts about Dr. King.  Please read to commemorate a man with a vision.  Please read to truly know, and to never forget the sacrifice he and his family made to make this country a better place for all people.  I got all of my bullet points from nobleprize.org.


  • He was born on January 15, 1929 as Michael Luther King, Jr., but later had his name changed to Martin.
  • Martin Luther attended segregated public schools in Georgia, graduating from high school at the age of fifteen; he received the B. A. degree in 1948 from Morehouse College, a distinguished Negro institution of Atlanta from which both his father and grandfather had graduated.
  • After three years of theological study at Crozer Theological Seminary in Pennsylvania where he was elected president of a predominantly white senior class, he was awarded the B.D. in 1951. With a fellowship won at Crozer, he enrolled in graduate studies at Boston University, completing his residence for the doctorate in 1953 and receiving the degree in 1955.
  • In Boston he met and married Coretta Scott, and had two sons and two daughters.
  • In 1954, Martin Luther King became pastor of the Dexter Avenue Baptist Church in Montgomery, Alabama.
  • In early December of 1955 he accepted the leadership of the first great Negro nonviolent demonstration of contemporary times in the United States, the bus boycott described by Gunnar Jahn in his presentation speech in honor of the laureate. The boycott lasted 382 days.
  • On December 21, 1956, after the Supreme Court of the United States had declared unconstitutional the laws requiring segregation on buses, Negroes and whites rode the buses as equals. During these days of boycott, King was arrested, his home was bombed, he was subjected to personal abuse, but at the same time he emerged as a Negro leader of the first rank.
  • In 1957 he was elected president of the Southern Christian Leadership Conference, an organization formed to provide new leadership for the now burgeoning civil rights movement. The ideals for this organization he took from Christianity; its operational techniques from Gandhi.
  • At the age of thirty-five, Martin Luther King, Jr., was the youngest man to have received the Nobel Peace Prize. When notified of his selection, he announced that he would turn over the prize money of $54,123 to the furtherance of the civil rights movement.
  • On the evening of April 4, 1968, before he was to lead a protest march in sympathy with striking garbage workers of that city, Martin Luther King, Jr. was assassinated while standing on the balcony of his motel room in Memphis, Tennessee.
  • Between 1957 and 1968, King traveled over six million miles and spoke over twenty-five hundred times, appearing wherever there was injustice, protest, and action; and meanwhile he wrote five books as well as numerous articles. In these years, he led a massive protest in Birmingham, Alabama, that caught the attention of the entire world, providing what he called a coalition of conscience. and inspiring his “Letter from a Birmingham Jail”, a manifesto of the Negro revolution; he planned the drives in Alabama for the registration of Negroes as voters; he directed the peaceful march on Washington, D.C., of 250,000 people to whom he delivered his address, “l Have a Dream”, he conferred with President John F. Kennedy and campaigned for President Lyndon B. Johnson; he was arrested upwards of twenty times and assaulted at least four times; he was awarded five honorary degrees; was named Man of the Year by Time magazine in 1963; and became not only the symbolic leader of American blacks but also a world figure.



The Famous “I Have a Dream” Speech:

I am happy to join with you today in what will go down in history as the greatest demonstration for freedom in the history of our nation.

Five score years ago, a great American, in whose symbolic shadow we stand today, signed the Emancipation Proclamation. This momentous decree came as a great beacon light of hope to millions of Negro slaves who had been seared in the flames of withering injustice. It came as a joyous daybreak to end the long night of their captivity.

But one hundred years later, the Negro still is not free. One hundred years later, the life of the Negro is still sadly crippled by the manacles of segregation and the chains of discrimination. One hundred years later, the Negro lives on a lonely island of poverty in the midst of a vast ocean of material prosperity. One hundred years later, the Negro is still languishing in the corners of American society and finds himself an exile in his own land. So we have come here today to dramatize a shameful condition.

In a sense we have come to our nation’s capital to cash a check. When the architects of our republic wrote the magnificent words of the Constitution and the Declaration of Independence, they were signing a promissory note to which every American was to fall heir. This note was a promise that all men, yes, black men as well as white men, would be guaranteed the unalienable rights of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.

It is obvious today that America has defaulted on this promissory note insofar as her citizens of color are concerned. Instead of honoring this sacred obligation, America has given the Negro people a bad check, a check which has come back marked “insufficient funds.” But we refuse to believe that the bank of justice is bankrupt. We refuse to believe that there are insufficient funds in the great vaults of opportunity of this nation. So we have come to cash this check — a check that will give us upon demand the riches of freedom and the security of justice. We have also come to this hallowed spot to remind America of the fierce urgency of now. This is no time to engage in the luxury of cooling off or to take the tranquilizing drug of gradualism. Now is the time to make real the promises of democracy. Now is the time to rise from the dark and desolate valley of segregation to the sunlit path of racial justice. Now is the time to lift our nation from the quick sands of racial injustice to the solid rock of brotherhood. Now is the time to make justice a reality for all of God’s children.
Martin Luther King, Jr., delivering his ‘I Have a Dream’ speech from the steps of Lincoln Memorial. (photo: National Park Service)

It would be fatal for the nation to overlook the urgency of the moment. This sweltering summer of the Negro’s legitimate discontent will not pass until there is an invigorating autumn of freedom and equality. Nineteen sixty-three is not an end, but a beginning. Those who hope that the Negro needed to blow off steam and will now be content will have a rude awakening if the nation returns to business as usual. There will be neither rest nor tranquility in America until the Negro is granted his citizenship rights. The whirlwinds of revolt will continue to shake the foundations of our nation until the bright day of justice emerges.

But there is something that I must say to my people who stand on the warm threshold which leads into the palace of justice. In the process of gaining our rightful place we must not be guilty of wrongful deeds. Let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred.

We must forever conduct our struggle on the high plane of dignity and discipline. We must not allow our creative protest to degenerate into physical violence. Again and again we must rise to the majestic heights of meeting physical force with soul force. The marvelous new militancy which has engulfed the Negro community must not lead us to a distrust of all white people, for many of our white brothers, as evidenced by their presence here today, have come to realize that their destiny is tied up with our destiny. They have come to realize that their freedom is inextricably bound to our freedom. We cannot walk alone.

As we walk, we must make the pledge that we shall always march ahead. We cannot turn back. There are those who are asking the devotees of civil rights, “When will you be satisfied?” We can never be satisfied as long as the Negro is the victim of the unspeakable horrors of police brutality. We can never be satisfied, as long as our bodies, heavy with the fatigue of travel, cannot gain lodging in the motels of the highways and the hotels of the cities. We cannot be satisfied as long as the Negro’s basic mobility is from a smaller ghetto to a larger one. We can never be satisfied as long as our children are stripped of their selfhood and robbed of their dignity by signs stating “For Whites Only”. We cannot be satisfied as long as a Negro in Mississippi cannot vote and a Negro in New York believes he has nothing for which to vote. No, no, we are not satisfied, and we will not be satisfied until justice rolls down like waters and righteousness like a mighty stream.

I am not unmindful that some of you have come here out of great trials and tribulations. Some of you have come fresh from narrow jail cells. Some of you have come from areas where your quest for freedom left you battered by the storms of persecution and staggered by the winds of police brutality. You have been the veterans of creative suffering. Continue to work with the faith that unearned suffering is redemptive.

Go back to Mississippi, go back to Alabama, go back to South Carolina, go back to Georgia, go back to Louisiana, go back to the slums and ghettos of our northern cities, knowing that somehow this situation can and will be changed. Let us not wallow in the valley of despair.

I say to you today, my friends, so even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream.

I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: “We hold these truths to be self-evident: that all men are created equal.”

I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to sit down together at the table of brotherhood.

I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a state sweltering with the heat of injustice, sweltering with the heat of oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice.

I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.

I have a dream today.

I have a dream that one day, down in Alabama, with its vicious racists, with its governor having his lips dripping with the words of interposition and nullification; one day right there in Alabama, little black boys and black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls as sisters and brothers.

I have a dream today.

I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight, and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed, and all flesh shall see it together.

This is our hope. This is the faith that I go back to the South with. With this faith we will be able to hew out of the mountain of despair a stone of hope. With this faith we will be able to transform the jangling discords of our nation into a beautiful symphony of brotherhood. With this faith we will be able to work together, to pray together, to struggle together, to go to jail together, to stand up for freedom together, knowing that we will be free one day.

This will be the day when all of God’s children will be able to sing with a new meaning, “My country, ’tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing. Land where my fathers died, land of the pilgrim’s pride, from every mountainside, let freedom ring.”

And if America is to be a great nation this must become true. So let freedom ring from the prodigious hilltops of New Hampshire. Let freedom ring from the mighty mountains of New York. Let freedom ring from the heightening Alleghenies of Pennsylvania!

Let freedom ring from the snowcapped Rockies of Colorado!

Let freedom ring from the curvaceous slopes of California!

But not only that; let freedom ring from Stone Mountain of Georgia!

Let freedom ring from Lookout Mountain of Tennessee!

Let freedom ring from every hill and molehill of Mississippi. From every mountainside, let freedom ring.

And when this happens, when we allow freedom to ring, when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God’s children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual, “Free at last! free at last! thank God Almighty, we are free at last!”

All in Love is Fair

Something inspired by Stevie Wonder’s ability in finding a way to give a piece of his soul while taking a piece of yours in a way that only a musical genius could.

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Was it wrong to want you? Because Hades still burns through and through. From deepened thoughts to softened skin. At times I wonder if it’s really Love that I feel, this passion that consumes me in melancholic bouts. Or could it just be infatuation? All I know is I want you next to me. And in these moments, spurs of idiomatic phrases crystallize in my soul. “I love you.” “I want you.” I think I’ve felt almost every feeling that is because of you, down to the most sinful and I pray that the Universe doesn’t hurl them back at me with your absent presence. Because when I told you I loved you, you put me on hold. So I shoved you out of my life though I still ache to have you near. And I wonder to myself “is it a mistake?” Could I have, should I have endured your proclamations of love without feeling the breath of those words? No.

Though love is patient, I can wait no longer. Maybe in a later life I wold be able to touch your skin again. Maybe in a later life you’ll be the African and I’ll be the Egyptian. But the woman of this life shall endure without the sweetness of your words. The woman of this life will no longer touch her lips to your lips and will ache at the thought of being without those meager things. Those dreams of Love sting less when it doesn’t dangle from a tree like some strange fruit. A faded memory, out of sight to lessen the pain. Call me a coward for searching for the less painful dream of making love to “music of my mind.”

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Superwoman . . . Where Where You When I Needed You

Being that I’m feeling very amorous at the moment, I thought I’d post another song (music is my lifeline).  Lyrics are below if you’re interested.  This song was composed by the genius Stevie Wonder.

This song was introduced to me by the love of my life…

Mary wants to be a superwoman
But is that really in her head
But I just want to live each day to love her
for what she is

Mary wants to be another movie star
But is that really in her mind
And all the things she wants to be
She needs to leave behind

But, very well, I believe I know you-very well
Wish that you knew me too-very well
And I think I can deal with everything going through your head

Very well, and I think I can face-very well
Wish that you knew me too-very well
And I think I can cope with everything going through your head

Mary wants to be a superwoman
And try to boss the bull around
But does she really think that she will get by with a dream

My woman want to be a superwoman
And I just had to say good-bye
Because I can’t spend all my hours start to cry

But, very well, I believe I know you
Very well wish that you knew me too
Very well, And I think I can deal with everything going through your head

Very well, think that I know you too
Very well, wish you knew me like I know you
Very well, but I think I can deal with everything going through your head
Your filthy head

Very well, dum dum da, dum dum da
Very well, wish you knew me too
Very well, And I wish I could think of everything going through your head

Very well, dum dum da, dum da, dum da
dum dum da, dum da, very well
And I think I can deal with everything going through your head

When the summer came you were not around
Now the summer’s gone and love cannot be found
Where were you when I needed you-last winter, my love?

When the winter came you went further south
Parting from love’s nest, leaving me in doubt
Where are you when I need you, like right now?

Our love is at an end
But you say now you have changed
But tomorrow will reflect love’s past

When the winter came you were not around
Through the bitter winds love could not be found
Where were you when I needed you, last winter, my love?

Oh I need you baby, I need you baby

Our love is at an end
But you say now you have changed,
But tomorrow will reflect love’s past oh

Spring will fill the air and you will come around,
Well is it summer love that will let me down,
Where were you when I needed you, last winter, my love?

La la la la la, la la la la la
La la la la la, la la la la la
Where are you when I need you, like right now?
Right now, right now, right now

Where were you when I needed you last winter, my dear
I need you baby, I need you baby, I need you baby
Oh, Where were you when I needed you last winter, last winter

Yea, Need you Baby, need you, need you baby,
Oh, you want me too need you baby
Oh where were you when I needed you last, dear
Yea

Airborne

I’ve been sick.  I won’t tell you the disgusting story as to how I think I got sick, but I will tell you that until I am well, I will be holding a grudge against my little brother. . .lol

But this blog is not about my need to vent about my sickness, this cough that keeps me up late and wakes me up in the middle of the night.  This blog is to talk about the different medicines that I have taken that has yet to take effect, and the one thing that never fails me.

When I first felt my throat become scratchy, I went straight for the bottle of vitamin C, which had about seven pills in the bottle.  It’s all about the strength of your immune system when it comes to being sick.  It’s about your body’s ability to get better with the aid of medication.  But there weren’t enough pills to overdose on before this cough started pressing my throat on a full-time basis.  So when I realized that I was actually sick, and that I was no longer “on the brink” of being sick, I went straight for the Theraflu.  Two days at home, two packs of Halls and six packets of Theraflu later, and I am still here with annoying, nagging cough.  So today I went and got my never failing Airborne!

I’ve heard a lot of talk about Airborne and its ineffectiveness, but I believe in the ingredients of Airborne and its intentions.  This immune boosting concoction contains 17 vitamins, minerals and herbs, including Zinc, Ginger, Echinacea and 1000mg of Vitamin C!  How can not get better with that, I mean really?  My favorite flavor is the Pink Grapefruit.

But it also comes in Lemon Lime, Zesty Orange and Very Berry.  Now, Airborne is supposed to be taken in order to help prevent sickness/colds, but I think when you’re sick, you need all of these vitamins to get better asap.  So if you’re feeling under the weather, or you feel something coming on, or even if everyone in your office is hacking, coughing and blowing their noses, try some Airborne to protect you from the season’s worst!

Being there…

So, as you all can see, I’ve been a bit backed up when it comes to my blogs. There hasn’t seem to be enough time to sit down and concentrate on it. My days have felt as though they’ve all mushed in together. However, the past few days, in my sick exhaustion, I’ve realized how much “being there” helps. So alot of folks are not able to be in Haiti right now, but here are tons of charities that you can give to in order to help those in need in Haiti. The easiest ones to give to are those that you can donate through text like Yele and Red Cross. But there are also others. Here are a few and the directions on how to give.  There are 3million people living just in Port-au-Prince people! So let’s raise a few million more $$$.


  • So far Wyclef Jean’s Yele Organization Raised $1 Million In Aid For Haiti, but you can still donate:

Text “YELE” to 501501 to donate $5 to Yele.

  • The American Red Cross says so far, U.S. cell phone users have contributed more than $5 million to the Red Cross.  To donate to the Red Cross:

Text “HAITI” to  90999 to donate $10 to the Red Cross.

  • The Salvation Army’s mission is to provide food, shelter, clothing and spiritual comfort during disasters. To donate money:

Go to salvationarmyusa.org or call 1-800-SAL-ARMY.

Make sure you designate the donation for “Haiti Earthquake.”

Money will go to the Salvation Army in Haiti, which will determine the country’s immediate needs, including water, food, medicine and transportation.

There are other organizations that you can donate to in order to help the situation in Haiti.

  • Here’s a link I found on CNN LIVING with an extensive list on fund raising organizations.


"Soul mates"

What is a “soul mate?” At first, I used to think that a soul mate was the one that is meant for another person. I thought that a soul mate was the “one and only,” or “love of my life” person. I mean, that’s what the movies told me a soul mate was. But after actually thinking, I have realized that a soul mate isn’t necessarily a lover. A soul mate is someone who you are connected to on another level. The actual definition?

Soul mate: 1. One of two persons compatible with each other in disposition, point of view, or sensitivity. 2. a person for whom one has a deep affinity, esp a lover, wife, husband, etc.

So you see it’s not just about love or lust, though someone can be connected to another through all or just one of the many different feelings humans have (such as those who are sexually in tuned with one another, or the love-at-first-sight-until-death-do-us-part-Hollywood-love). I think that it is possible to even have more than one soul mate. The definition states that one just has a “deep affinity” towards a person.

Affinity: 1. A natural attraction, liking, or feeling of kinship.

Now, I don’t say “just” as if this connection is easy, but it’s a celestial connection that we as materialistic, earthly beings don’t usually aspire to study. A soul mate is someone with whom one has a “feeling of kinship” with.

Kinship: 1. Relationship by nature or character; affinity. 2. family relationship or other close tie or relationship.

In short, a soul mate is a person with whom another is connected to. Could it be sexual? Yes. It’s when you find that one person who you can’t get enough of, no matter how much of him/her you get. Could it be romantic? Yes. I believe in love at first sight and ever lasting love. Could it be sisterly, brotherly, motherly, fatherly? Yes. I know a lot of folks who has a “brother from another mother” or someone who isn’t blood related, but feels just like she gave birth to you. Soul mates are just kindred.

Kindred: 1. natural relationship

To understand what that really means would be to understand how mother earth regenerates herself and evolves year by year from season to season. Though we think we understand, all we can really do is observe, and be a part of the design.

Gravity

I was introduced a few months ago to Sara Bareilles song “Gravity” by a good friend of mine, and fell in love. Granted, this song was featured on Bareilles’ album “Little Voice” in 2007, a whole three years ago, but the lyrics to this song is timeless. What made me really fall in love with this song were the lines:

“You loved me ’cause I’m fragile, but I thought that I was strong. But you touch me for a little while, and all my fragile strength is gone.”

In my interpretation, this is a smartly written song. And that is the real reason for this blog today; the concept of this song “Gravity.” The essential definition to the word “gravity,” (following the concept of the song and according to thefreedictionary.com) is “the natural force of attraction exerted by a celestial body…upon objects at or near its surface, tending to draw them toward the center of the body.” I am an over-analyzer, so not only do I see Bareilles’ idea of being held down by this lover, but also being draw to her lover, a “celestial body” himself.

That’s it y’all. I’m a hopeless romantic and I think this song is tortuously passionate, and share-worthy. LoL. I’ve posted the video (very visually stimulating as well as creative) from youtube.com as well as the lyrics (written by Sara Barielles) below. Hope you fall in love with it as I did. Listen and Enjoyyyyy.

GRAVITY

Something always brings me back to you.
It never takes too long.
No matter what I say or do.
I still feel you here, ’til the moment I’m gone.

You hold me without touch
You keep me without chains
I never wanted anything so much
Than to drown in your love, and not feel your reign

Set me free, leave me be
I don’t want to another moment into your gravity
Here I am, and I stand so tall
Just the way I’m supposed to be
But you’re onto me, and all over me

Oh, you loved me ’cause I’m fragile
But I thought that I was strong
But you touch me for a little while
And all my fragile strength is gone

Set me free, leave me be
I don’t want to another moment into your gravity
Here I am, and I stand so tall
Just the way I’m supposed to be
But you’re onto me, and all over me

I live here on my knees as I try to make you see that you’re everything I think I need here on the ground
But you’re neither friend nor foe, though I can’t seem to let you go
The one thing that I still know is that you’re keeping me down
You’re keeping me down

You’re onto me, onto me and all over
Something always brings me back to you.
It never takes too long.

January First, Two Thousand and Ten

It is the first day of the new year, and the first thing I want to send out is Love, Happiness, Wealth and Health to all those I know and all those I love.

2009 was a year in which my personal and creative life sort of switched rounds. I have always been blessed with the gift of creativity, but prior to 2009 I have squandered those talents away with years of meek ambition to go the traditional/safe route. Though I chose Creative Writing as my major in college, I can’t say that I have been very aggressive in my approach to anything really creative. But I made the decision to do more last year with the creative talents that I was blessed with. I was also very fortunate to have those in my life who supported me and help me nurture these talents. And in my personal life, I was never really a Don Juana (lol), but 2009 was the first year in which I can say I made decisions in relationships that I am ashamed of (though I’ve learned a lot from them). But 2010 proves to be a great year. Not only am I in this new realm of my life where the creative gods are being gracious to me, but 2009 has allowed me to grow and prioritize through those personal experiences.

This the turn of a new year as well as the turn of a decade, and I reflect on things, good and bad.

1. I will never have to say “what if” when it comes to those bad decisions.
2. I have learned about my capabilities as well as weaknesses within a relationship.
3. I have met new people who are very supportive as well as nurturing to my creative talents.
4. I have acquired knowledge of myself in terms of my needs and wants, both creatively and personally.
5. I am grateful for my continuously supportive family.
6. I recognize even more, the friends who are nearest and dearest to me.
7. And though this is selfish, what’s more important to me is that in the bit of creative growth that I have attained in 2009, I have set goals on ambitions for 2010 that I used to tuck away for the sake of safety.

2010 proves to be “the best year yet” (as I have been wished through mass New Year texts). It will be a year of chances and a year of continual growth and steadfast ambition. I’ll keep you up to date on the progress!

I am no better than the assaulter

So, this morning at 4am, I was awoken by the screams of a woman. In my hazy awareness I walked to my bedroom window. I looked outside through my sleepy eyes and saw nothing.

“Get off of me, get off of me (screams)”

What could I do? I could have called 911 and report screams from a woman somewhere near my building. However, I did nothing. I went back to bed, only to be held awake by more yelling of the woman.

“So you’re trying to kill me, so you’re trying to kill me?”

I go to the window again. I see a figure just inside the entrance of the apartment building across the street from my building. I hear nothing. I see a woman pulling two glass bottles out of the garbage can of another building. She walks into the apartment building across the street from my bedroom window.

I don’t know what happened to the screaming woman. I don’t know what happened to the man or woman who was assaulting this woman. I don’t know if the woman who pulled the bottles out of the can was the screaming woman (but most likely it was). I don’t know what happen to the figure that walked from the apartment entrance into the apartment building. All I know is that in my inaction, I am no better than the assaulter.

Don’t be like me. Do something. Call 911 at the very least if you know of an assault or domestic abuse.

If you are in an abusive relationship there are a few hotlines that you can visit for help.

WOMEN IN NEED

http://www.women-in-need.org/

Women In Need, Inc., (WIN) provides housing, help and hope to New York City women and their families who are homeless and disadvantaged. Through comprehensive programs such as shelter, supportive permanent housing, job training, domestic violence services, alcohol and substance abuse treatment and childcare, WIN offers the tools and guidance which allow our families to return to their communities and live independently.

DOMESTIC ABUSE HELPLINE

http://dahmw.org/

The Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men and Women has been helping those in need for a number of years. It is run and operated by unpaid volunteers who have devoted enormous amounts of time to ensuring that both male and female victims of domestic abuse get the help and respect they need to free themselves from violent relationships. Please read what follows and do what you can to help them to keep helping others.

THE NATIONAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOTLINE

http://www.ndvh.org/

The Hotline is a nonprofit organization that provides crisis intervention, information and referral to victims of domestic violence, perpetrators, friends and families. The Hotline answers a variety of calls and is a resource for domestic violence advocates government officials, law enforcement agencies and the general public. The Hotline is toll-free, confidential and anonymous. It operates 24 hours a day, 365 days a year, in more than 170 different languages through interpreter services, with a TTY line available for the Deaf, Deaf-Blind and Hard of Hearing. The staff at the Hotline and the Texas Council on Family Violence is also available to provide assistance and guidance in a variety of areas including media, public relations, fundraising, public policy, legal advocacy and public education and training.